Saturday, September 21, 2019

A Walk In The Woods- Raccoon Lake- Indiana

A couple of weeks ago we went camping as a family and had a really nice time. Raccoon Lake in Indiana has a wonderful family campground and plenty of activities to keep one busy. Since I am not a fan of water, I enjoyed some nice hikes while my husband was on the boat.
This was some of the scenery that was close to our campsite and while walking the first day, we came across a doe with two babies and she allowed us to get very close to her, but I can't locate those photos at the moment. 
The paths were nice most of the trail. On day two, we did walk a trail that had a little more rugged terrain and found that the path was fairly narrow in spots. 

These benches were found along the trail and made a nice spot to rest for a bit. It had been awhile since this old  lady had been hiking.  I also found the large vines from the trees to be quite photogenic. Natural beauty at its finest!
The grand doll found these to be a great seat as well. Isn't she the cutest? She was a real trooper as well. The trail was about a mile and she walked it all. 

She was amazed at how big the trees were! The knowledge that was learned on this trail could never be replaced by a classroom and text book. 
Several spots along the trail were near the water and gave us a different view of the lake . This was near the marina where the trail began. 
I thought about my grand dolls legs when I saw this tree. If any of you have followed our journey with Blount's Disease, you might remember this is how her left leg look below the knee.  If you haven't read of our journey, you can here.
Her legs are much straighter now and she is growing so big. She really enjoyed these vines. 

Mommy helped her swing on these! It was a nice break from walking she said. Kids are so cute!!
Along the trail and my reason for hiking this trail, was a small cemetery. Now, I have a fondness of cemeteries and especially ones like this. I find peace while walking through them looking at tombstones. Seems odd to many, but it is part of who I am. 
I have not investigated to see if these were original owners of this land or not. I found this to be such a nice monument for the age of it and where it is located. 

David Payne

Only one large tombstone and it looked as though another one had been destroyed possibly by a falling tree.  Still a pleasant spot to stop and enjoy the beauty around us. 
I am sure lightening had struck this tree at some time. You can almost see the exact path of the strike. This was not near the cemetery, but shows the damage that trees can get during a storm. 
From the top of the hill, we were fully aware that the steps leading down were taking us to this wooden bridge. I thought it made a very nice photo. 

Of course, the grand doll had to sit for a bit. She loved the bridge, but was disappointed that there was no water under it. I explained that because we have not had much rain lately, the ground was dry.
This was not blocking the trail, but I also just thought this showcased more of nature. How perfectly straight across is this log?

Another spot along the lake and closer to the end of our trail.

Fungus growing on a log. We were interested in all the aspects of nature you can see while hiking and we guessed as whether these were edible or not.

If you ever have a chance to visit Raccoon Lake in Indiana, I highly recommend it! The weather was perfect for our hikes and for camping. October will bring fall colors to the trees and I would love to go back and enjoy some of those colors.







Thursday, September 19, 2019

The Candy Man ; Saturday 9

THE CANDY MAN (1972)
Unfamiliar with this week's song? Hear it here.

1) This song is from Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory, starring Gene Wilder. The movie was remade as Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, with Johnny Depp as Willy Wonka. Which Wonka did you prefer? I actually enjoyed both of them, but I believe that the original one was my favorite. 

2) In the movie, this song is sung by Bill, the candy store shopkeeper. Think about the last counter person you dealt with. We know that he or she likely didn't break into song, but did you two engage in conversation? No, I was at the bank and the teller only said hello and thank you. 

3) The lyrics tell us that The Candy Man can make the world taste good. What's the last thing you ate? Was it delicious, or just OK? The last thing that I ate was a frozen Totino's pizza and it was quite tasty.
 
4) The most popular recording of this song was by Sammy Davis,  Jr. Sammy was in a horrific car accident when he was 29 years old. His cheek and nose were broken and he lost an eye. That he survived at all left him reflective and after his hospitalization, he converted to Judaism. Do you still worship in the faith you were raised in? Yes, I still attend the church that I began attending in Junior high at times.
5) Sammy was proud of the honorary college degrees because he received because never formally attended school. As a child, he performed on the road with his father and uncle. In addition to depriving him of an education, that lifestyle kept him from kids his own age. He would later describe his childhood as, "in a word, 'lonely.'" Give us a one-word description of your childhood. Difficult. ( My dad was an alcoholic and was verbally abusive to us and physically abusive with my mom)
 
6) Because he spent so much of his youth on the road, living on buses, trains and hotel rooms, he loved eventually having his own kitchen and being able to cook his own meals. This weekend, will you spend much time in the kitchen? Probably quite a bit. I have a few items that I am looking to make and it will take some time. 

 
7) Sammy enjoyed experimenting with clothes and jewelry. What about you? Do you consider yourself conservative in dress or are you fashion forward? I find that I am conservative, but that I enjoy fashion. I have been shopping for some newer items lately. 

8) When he died, Sammy was in debt to the IRS. Do you handle your own taxes, or do you use the services of an accountant? I usually do my own taxes. 
  
9) Random question: If you had to tell nothing but the truth (not even the tiniest white lie) for 24 hours, do you think you'd get yourself in trouble?
Well, I might get myself in a little trouble, but I guess it would depend on what was being asked. 

Wednesday, September 18, 2019

Wonderful Wednesday #7 - A Golden Anniversary

Monday was a cause for celebration around the farm here. It represented such a milestone for my husband and his parents that we had to make the day as special as possible. It was my in-laws 50th wedding anniversary! 50 years that they have walked side by side, had their ups and downs and been together through all aspects of life.

As many of you know, my mother in law has really struggled with some health issues and we have had to look into more care for her. Due to some current health issues we were not able to celebrate at home, but it did not stop us from making sure the day did not go unnoticed. We took the party to her!

A delicious cake bought from Meijer's! I thought the roses and the heart where such a special touch and fitting for the day!

The Happy Couple! It is hard for me to imagine that this sweet man has lived with this woman for 50 years as she can be such a problem and never appreciates anything that is done for her, but he has and he still loves her no matter what!
Presenting the cake was left to the granddaughter that was able to be there and of course, you can see the grand doll had to be involved. She kept saying Happy Birthday to them. It was so cute!
This is the nice vase of flowers that my father in law gave her. We were looking for fall flowers, but he really wanted these and thought that they might be nicer for an anniversary. Yes, we had White Castle for dinner as it was easy to transport and she likes them so it was a nice treat for her. 


Other than my husband and I, the only other guests were my daughter and her boyfriend and the grand doll. The older daughter and son were unable to be there due to work obligations. This picture is really blurry and I am not sure why. 
I will leave you with these beautiful roses that were the backdrop to the picnic area that we were able to sit in. A beautiful evening to celebrate 50 years of marriage!!!




The Favorite Daughter - Book Review - Fall Reading Challenge

Hello and welcome readers! This is a new type of post for me, but I would very much like to attempt to begin reviewing books as I read them.




 TITLE - the favorite daughter

SERIES- No

PAGES - 348

DATE PUBLISHED - June 2019

PUBLISHER -Berkley

BLURB - Ten years ago, Lena Donohue experienced a wedding-day betrayal so painful that she fled the small town of Watersend, South Carolina, and reinvented herself in New York City. Though she's now a freelance travel writer, the one place she rarely goes is home- until she learns of her dad's failing health. 

Returning to Watersend means seeing the sister she has avoided for a decade and the brother who runs the family's Irish pub and who has borne the burden of his sisters' rift. While Alzheimer's slowly steals their father's memories, the siblings rush to preserve his life in stories and in photographs. As his secret past brings Lena's own childhood into focus, it sends her on a journey to discover the true meaning of home. 


MY THOUGHTS

 I am reading this book as book one in my Fall Reading Challenge, which you can learn more about here.  I have never read anything by Patti Callahan Henry, so I really wasn't sure what to expect from her as an author. However, I will be adding her to my list of authors that I would like to learn a little more about. 

This book brought with it an storyline that began with a serious betrayal by one sister that was almost unimaginable. I found that I had a hard time reading this book at first as the storyline seemed a little boring at first. However, the book dealt with a family struggling with a recent Alzheimer's diagnosis and I really wanted to see how the author handled the way that affects a family and not just the person that is struggling with it. I believe, the author presented the facts of the disease on a family quite accurately and with a sense of understanding. 

Once the storyline began to unfold and the real story began to emerge, the book was almost a " do not lay me down" story, which I thoroughly enjoyed. Many parts of the book came as a surprise and when Lena learns of her true home and family, it is an ending that won't be easily forgotten. 

I highly recommend this book. I am looking forward to reading another book by Patti Callahan Henry and I am adding The Bookshop at Water's End to my reading list. I hope you will locate this book and enjoy it as much as I did.

Friday, September 13, 2019

The Straw Hat Song - Saturday 9



The Straw Hat Song (1955)

Unfamiliar with this week's song. Hear it here.



1) In this song, Desi Arnaz encourages us to laugh and sing instead of concentrating on our troubles. Is this an approach to life you could adopt? Or are you a worrier? I find that I do worry about some things, but others I can just ignore and they don't seem to bother me at all. 

2) Because Desi's public persona was carefree, people are often surprised to learn his early life was hard. In 1933, his wealthy family was targeted by Cuban revolutionaries. Their home was destroyed and were forced to flee the country. In Miami, they lived in a warehouse and 16-year-old Desi helped support the family by cleaning cages for the man who sold canaries outside a drugstore. Think about your friends and acquaintances. Whose life story turned out to be very different than you originally thought? Probably mine changed the most. I had a child earlier than I ever planned and I married someone completely different than anyone expected. 

3) While still in his teens, Desi got his first job as an entertainer. As a boy in Cuba, he expected to be a lawyer, not a musician. He only began playing guitar because he noticed girls like musicians and he liked girls. Tell us about a hobby of yours, and what inspired you to pick it up.I love to horseback ride. I convinced my husband that we needed a horse although I had not ridden a lot, but I loved horses. Once he got me one, I was completely hooked. 

4) He discovered he was not only a talented musician but a natural leader. By the tender age of 19, he had organized The Desi Arnaz Orchestra and they were performing in Miami hotels. Have you ever been a boss? If so, did you enjoy it?Yes, I was a manager at Dollar General and I enjoyed it at times, but it was a lot of work and there were many days of complete misery.

5) When he was 23, he went to Hollywood to try his hand at movies and met a 28 year old actress named Lucille Ball. In Hollywood back in 1940, it was considered embarrassing for a woman to date a younger man. Their initial attraction was so powerful she quickly got over it. Do you think age matters when it comes to romance? I have always thought it did, but I am three years older than my husband and my daughter is with someone almost 10 years older than her and they are truly happy. 


6) Desi was the first person to call that famous redhead "Lucy." Throughout her entire life, friends, family and coworkers always referred to her as "Lucille," as she preferred. But Desi insisted on "Lucy." He said that name was his and his alone. Ironically it became the way the world referred to her. Do you have a pet name for anyone? I do for my children and my grand doll. 

7) Lucille and Desi named their son and daughter after themselves. Were you named after anyone?My mom and my great grandmother on my dads' side.  

8) Desi was the founding force behind Desilu. One of the first great production studios of the television age, Desilu grossed $15 million in 1957 (more than $135 million in today's dollars). He credited his success to his unconventional and creative approach to problems. Are you a good problem solver? It depends on what the problem is. 


9) Random question: Who annoys you more, a know-it-all or an ignoramus? Both- depending on the situation

Thursday, September 12, 2019

Wonderful Wednesday #6

It is a wonderful day anytime that we wake up and see another sunrise, but today is such a somber day as well. Today marks the 18th anniversary of one of the greatest attacks on our country - September 11, 2001. For those that were old enough to watch the events of that day unfold, may we never forget what was done to those innocent people and our country that day. 

This is just one of the harrowing scenes from that day. The second plane flying directly into the Twin Towers and no one could do anything but watch. The other tower had been hit and was one fire and it was possible to believe that it was an accident, but after this we were fully aware that we were under attack!  

As flights were cancelled and people were aware of what was happening, our lives changed forever. We learned of an enemy that was so ruthless that they took innocent lives of men, women, and children. Those innocent people were in the most vulnerable positions as they were unable to do anything to attempt to save their own lives.  Although, we did learn of Flight 93 that went down in Shanksville, PA where a group of heroes, presumably led by Todd Beamer, did attempt to fight back and possibly kept the White House from being hit as well. 

These images still serve as a constant reminder of how life can change so drastically in just a few seconds. No one that worked in these buildings had any idea as they prepared to go to work that this was the last morning, they would go to work. No one that boarded these flights was aware that it would be such a harrowing and deadly flight.  As an American at home, I was no aware that such hatred could even exist.
This photo showcases just how helpless people felt as they watched the devastation below them and were unable to do anything about it. As we know, people felt so helpless that some jumped from these high places, knowing that they would never survive that fall. I can't imagine feeling that helpless. I also can't imagine the thoughts that went through their minds. Were they aware of the complete devastation that would come? Were they aware that they might never leave this building alive? Did they feel as though the Towers were strong enough to survive this attack and that they would be rescued? 
Many firefighters, policemen, first responders and others arrived at the scene to help. NYCFD responded quickly and these men were aware of the job ahead of them, but not the danger ahead of them. This group of heroes could not have known that 343 of them would lose their lives that day. That alone is pure devastation! A group of men going to work to save others and would ultimately pay the greatest sacrifice!
 This is another scene that I have replayed in my mind many of times, the first tower simply collapsing. This huge building that housed offices and employed so many people was simply falling to the ground with hundreds of people inside of it and no place to escape.  People that were outside the building and had escaped the initial hit of the plane was now at risk once again. Firefighters and policemen were in this building to aid in the rescue of those that had survive the initial attack.
 These pictures show the sheer devastation left in Manhattan that day. The photo at top showing the dust and debris left from the towers and the photo below showing the metal that had survived the attack and was all that was left standing. The immense sadness that comes from seeing these photos is still just as strong as it was the day this all happened. The day the world stopped turning for a bit!
Where were you this day? I was at work and initially thought that I had heard a wrong report. No way would a plane hit those towers. No way would a plane have hit the Pentagon. It simply was not possible! How wrong I was!!
The days following Sept. 11, there were many posters of missing people in the Manhattan area. Many of these people worked or were known to have been in the area at the time of the attacks. Were they lost, were they injured, were they dead? Families simply needed an answer!  
For many Americans, this seemed the only logical position to be in. On our knees praying to God.  Praying for the families, the lives lost, the heroes, the country. The days following September 11, 2001 the enemy had not won- Yes, he destroyed lives, families, planes, and buildings, but he had not destroyed the American spirit. We banded together and became a stronger nation. A nation that served where needed, helped others, prayed, and held memorials. We became one nation and color, race, nothing matter- WE WERE AMERICANS!



* These photos are not my own, but photos that friends and others have shared with me. 





Thursday, September 5, 2019

Wonderful Wednesday #5

Hello everyone! Happy Fall! I can say that since it is after Labor Day, although it still feels a lot like summer here with the humidity. I have had such a busy week and I know things are so far behind here, but I am very excited to write this post. I have to share that my husband got a new horse last weekend and is riding again. 
It's not a great picture, but it shows him and I riding together. No, we don't hold hands riding, but our friend thought it added to the picture. It has been almost three years since he quit riding, but he decided that he was ready to ride again. This horse that I am on is Sugar and she is fairly new to me, but it's the horse that the grand doll and I rode one. 


The pigs are still doing good and the grand doll still loves to play with them. She is certainly turning into quite the farm girl! I am so happy about that as I feel that kids that grow up on a farm know more responsibility and common sense that others might. 
I hope that you all have a great week. We will be camping again this weekend and I hope to have plenty of news for you when we return. 

Wednesday, August 28, 2019

Wonderful Wednesday #4

Welcome to another edition of Wonderful Wednesday! Many of you are looking forward to the upcoming weekend due to being a holiday weekend that will give you a three day weekend instead of the normal two. What do you plan to do with that additional day off? Will it be a useful day or not?

It is hard to believe that Labor Day is upon us and that fall is near. I love summer, but I am a fan of fall as well. Spring used to be my favorite time of the year, but allergies seem to have taken some of that joy from me. I appreciate all of the wonderful scents that come along with fall and many of the activities that abound this time of the year.

I will be camping this weekend as usual. The horses will probably be fully aware that our riding time is winding down for the year and so I will be sure to get some time in for that. I also feel that my husband and I need a recharge towards getting ourselves ready for fall. I personally feel like we have wasted our summer and have nothing prepared for fall and winter here on the farm.

This has to be a short post as I am attempting to finish packing the camper and doing some online training for my home health job. UGH! It seems that all of the trainings that we have completed in the 7 years that I have worked for this company are always covering the same items. I need new material to learn!

Is there anything lovelier than a field of sunflowers to represent fall? I don't believe so!
This little guy is a great reminder to me of decorating for fall, which I fully intend to do some next week. I wonder if I can find a sweet scarecrow like this. 

Monday, August 26, 2019

It's Monday! What Are You Reading?

Hello! Welcome Monday Morning! I have decided to take part in It's Monday! What Are You Reading? hosted by Kathyrn at Book Date. I recently discovered her blog by reading another friend's blog, Collettas Kitchen Sink. I highly recommend that you stop by both of these for anything literature related.

Now, I have never read books and got paid to review them or get free books to review, but it would be an awesome thing to do as I thoroughly enjoy reading most books. Some I find that I am just not interested in, but usually can read it anyway.

This week, I am reading The Favorite Daughter by Patti Callahan Henry. It's an interesting read that deals with reflection, forgiveness, and has plenty of twists. Lena Donahue has experienced a betrayal that is almost unimaginable, but finds a way to move on and finally after much soul searching discovers what home truly means.
I got this from the library so it should be easy to locate it and I personally, have never read anything else by this author, but I am intrigued to see what other books she has available.

Indianapolis Colts Quarterback, Andrew Luck, Retires

Saturday preseason football in Indianapolis, Indiana brought a shock heard around the world as Andrew Luck was forced to an impromptu news conference to announce that he is retiring from the NFL. At age 29 and suffering many injuries the past two or three years, Luck has decided to move on with his life.

A news conference was planned for Sunday afternoon, but following a leak of the information from ESPN, Luck made his announcement following the Colt's loss to the Chicago Bears on Saturday. Fans booed as Luck made his way off of the field, as many are upset that the man that came from Stanford as the number 1 draft pick in 2012 and was regarded as one of the best quarterbacks in the league was leaving just a few weeks before the season hits full steam ahead.

Luck says that the pain and injuries that he has suffered has taken a toll on him mentally and physically and that he feels that it is best to continue his life without football. He was married last year following football season and he and his wife are expecting their first child. You can watch the video of his news conference here.

Many fans understand why he has stepped aside, but the hurt is real. Many fans are very upset and I believe that it has a lot to do with the way that Luck was talked about before he was drafted by Indianapolis. People expected Luck to be in the ranks of quarterbacks like Manning, Brady, Brees, etc. Long term quarterbacks with records that others want to achieve. Instead, Luck has spent several weeks on the injured list and was looking at another season of not being in the game for a few weeks.

The Indianapolis Colts are left with their back up quarterback, Jacoby Brissett, who played for the New England Patriots and was traded in 2017 to play under Andrew Luck. Brissett started 15 games during the 2017 season, due to Luck being injured and unable to play. His record is not the best, but I believe that he has the capability to be a good quarterback. However, Indianapolis has lacked in defense for many years and they need to get something figured out there so that the quarterbacks are not hit as often and injured in the process. Protecting your quarterback in an important part of any football game.

I have never been an Andrew Luck fan as I felt that the Indianapolis Colts management done Peyton Manning so wrong by getting rid of him to bring Luck in and I was upset as to how he was constantly compared to Manning and Colts management made it sound as though he would be such a better quarterback, but I wish him the best as his life changes and he has stepped away from the NFL. Your life and career should not be spent in pain to do a job to keep others happy!


The Past - Andrew Luck

The Future - Jacoby Brissett


Sunday, August 25, 2019

Saturday 9: No One's Here To Sleep

Saturday 9: No One's Here to Sleep (2013)

Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) This song is the theme of How to Get Away with Murder, the legal drama that premiered in 2014 and airs on Thursday nights. Are you a fan? No, I have never really watched it. I prefer Criminal Minds to most any crime shows.

2) The song's refrain says, "I'll never catch up with you." Behind the wheel, do you carefully observe the speed limit? Or do you have a lead foot, making it hard for anyone to catch up with you? I tend to have a lead foot!

3) How to Get Away with Murder is about Annalise Keating, a law professor at a top Philadelphia university. She has a reputation for being tough, demanding and able to turn her students into successful defense attorneys. Tell us about a teacher who helped prepare you for life after graduation.I believe that all of our teachers prepare us for this. I have several teachers that were stand out. One was Mr. Armor, 7th grade and Mrs. Poynter. 4th grade.

4) The students she feels show the most promise -- and are recruited to help her solve murders -- are known as The Keating Four. Did you ever sense that you were your teacher's favorite? No, I was never a teacher's favorite, but I was a good student.

5) Viola Davis was just nominated for an Emmy for playing Professor Keating. Ms. Davis was born on a farm in SC. Have you spent more of your life in a rural, suburban or urban setting? I have spent about half of my life in a rural setting and the rest in town.

6) Next to Annalise Keating, Viola Davis is best known for her Oscar-nominated role as Aibileen in the movie, The Help. Have you seen it? YES, one of my all time favorite movies!

7) In 2014, the year How to Get Away with Murder premiered, we lost two famous comedians: Robin Williams and Joan Rivers. Who was the last person to make you laugh out loud? (This means actually, literally laughing out loud, not just keystroking LOL.) My grand doll. She makes me laugh daily.

8) The 2014 Olympics were held in Sochi. Have you ever been to Russia? If not, is it a dream destination of yours? No, I have some dream destinations, but Russia is not one of them!

9) Random question:
The sign on the railing says, "Wet Paint." Do you touch the railing to see if it's really wet?
No, I assume that it is wet paint!   

A Walk In The Woods- Raccoon Lake- Indiana

A couple of weeks ago we went camping as a family and had a really nice time. Raccoon Lake in Indiana has a wonderful family campground and ...